How (language) confidence gets you hired — what employers really look for
Confidence can feel slippery during a job search. You know what you can do, but communicating that, especially in an interview, doesn’t always feel easy. And when nerves kick in, it’s tempting to assume confidence is something you either have or don’t.
Updated on December 17, 2025
The good news? Research suggests otherwise. Confidence plays a clear role in hiring decisions, shaping first impressions, influencing how your skills come across and helping employers picture you in the role. And importantly, it’s something you can build.
In this article, we look at how confidence gets you hired, what employers actually respond to and where language confidence fits in: with practical, research-backed ways to strengthen both.
- Why confidence matters in hiring decisions
- Confidence vs. arrogance: the balance employers care about
- How self-confidence shapes recruiter perceptions
- Where language confidence comes in
- How to build confidence that actually helps you get hired
Why confidence matters in hiring decisions
When employers meet you, they’re doing more than ticking boxes. They’re asking themselves questions like: Will this person handle pressure? Can they communicate clearly? Will they work well with others?
Confidence often becomes a shortcut for answering those questions.
A survey cited by PayScale found that 42% of HR professionals rated confidence as one of the most admirable traits in a candidate, highlighting how important self-presentation has become in hiring decisions.
According to the same research, hiring managers increasingly look beyond experience and technical skills alone, focusing instead on personal qualities that signal adaptability and potential. As career experts at TopInterview explain, “the fine line between ‘confidence’ and ‘arrogance’ can make or break an interview”.
Confidence vs. arrogance: the balance employers care about
Confidence works — but only when it feels grounded.
According to the PayScale and TopInterview findings, confident candidates tend to explain their experience clearly, support claims with examples and engage in a balanced exchange rather than dominating the conversation.
What doesn’t work? Overclaiming, dismissing questions or pretending you know everything. That usually reads as arrogance, not confidence.
You don’t need to oversell yourself. Employers aren’t looking for perfection; they’re looking for clarity, self-awareness and honesty about what you bring to the table.
How self-confidence shapes recruiter perceptions
Confidence doesn’t just influence how candidates feel, it affects hiring outcomes. Research on recruiter perceptions shows that self-confidence plays a role in how candidates are evaluated during interviews.
An exploratory study examining recruiters’ perspectives found that candidate self-confidence significantly influences perceived suitability, interview performance and the likelihood of progressing to later hiring stages.
This means that when two candidates have similar experience, confidence can shape how that experience is interpreted. It doesn’t replace skills but it does help those skills land.
Where language confidence comes in
If you’re interviewing or working in another language, confidence matters even more.
Research in applied linguistics shows a strong link between confidence and language performance. A large meta-analysis published in System found that “self-efficacy beliefs and language proficiency are positively related,” meaning confident speakers are more likely to engage, practise and improve.
In hiring situations, language confidence affects how fluently candidates explain their experience, how they respond to unexpected questions and how comfortable they appear in professional interactions.
Language confidence and employability
Studies on employability consistently highlight communication as a key factor in hiring decisions.
Research looking at hiring managers’ perceptions found that candidates who spoke confidently and fluently made stronger first impressions and were seen as more employable.
What matters most isn’t flawless grammar. It’s clarity, responsiveness and the ability to keep the conversation moving. Employers tend to evaluate communication as performance, not as a language exam.
Why confidence often matters more than “perfect” language
If you’re waiting until your language skills feel perfect, you’re probably waiting too long.
Confident speakers tend to manage gaps more smoothly. They rephrase, ask for clarification and stay engaged instead of freezing. From an employer’s point of view, that signals adaptability and problem-solving skills that matter in almost any role.
Hesitation or silence, on the other hand, can be mistaken for uncertainty, even when the knowledge is there.
How to build confidence that actually helps you get hired
Confidence that works in interviews isn’t about pretending. It’s about preparation.
Research across hiring and language learning shows that confidence grows through exposure and evidence, not mindset alone. Helpful ways to build it include:
- preparing concrete examples from your experience
- practising answers out loud, not just in your head
- focusing on outcomes rather than perfect wording
- getting comfortable explaining what you know — and what you’re still learning
Each real conversation builds proof that you can handle the next one.
Confidence is a skill that can be learned
Across recruitment research, psychology and language studies, one thing is clear: confidence gets you hired because it helps your skills come across clearly.
You don’t need to be the loudest person in the room. You need to be prepared, engaged and comfortable communicating, even when things aren’t perfect.
If you’re building confidence in another language, regular speaking practice and clear feedback can make a real difference. At Lingoda, learners practise real conversations with certified teachers in small groups, which helps confidence grow naturally over time. That confidence often carries into interviews, meetings and everyday professional situations.
Confidence doesn’t appear overnight. But with the right practice, it becomes something you can rely on, both in interviews and beyond.
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Jessica Schnase
Hailing from Germany, Jessica has swapped pretzels for scones and now lives in the UK where she works as the Senior Content Manager at Lingoda. She worked in various industries where she honed her skills in content marketing. She holds degrees in Media Studies and English Literature having studied in several countries. She uses yoga practice and singing in a choir to switch off from everyday life.
