How to talk about emotions in Italian

Whether it’s joy, frustration, or anguish over an overcooked plate of spaghetti, emotions in Italian aren’t just felt — they’re performed. But how do you go beyond the basics of felice (happy) and triste (sad) to really sound like a native?

In this guide, we’ll explore the rich vocabulary of Italian emotions. Along the way, we’ll look at how cultural nuances shape expression and how a touch of comedy can help you master the art of dramatic flair. And, of course, we’ll break down the essential phrases and grammar, so you’ll never be at a loss for words — whether you’re declaring undying love or complaining (passionately) about the weather. Ready? Andiamo!

two girls on a vespa expressing their emotions in italian, smiling to each other

Understanding basic emotional vocabulary in Italian

Before you start pouring your heart out in Italian, you need the right words. Emotions are universal, but every language expresses them a little differently. In Italian, emotions are often accompanied by a particular cadence and a dramatic hand gesture. To get you started, here’s a list of essential emotional vocabulary in Italian:

ItalianPronunciationEnglish
l’emozioneeh-moh-tzee-oh-nehemotion
l’umoreoo-moh-rehhumor
il sentimentosen-tee-men-tohfeeling
la gioiajoy-ahjoy
l’amoreah-moh-rehlove
l’odiooh-dyohhate
la speranzaspeh-rahn-tsahhope
la compassionekohm-pahs-syoh-nehcompassion
la paurapah-oo-rahfear
la rabbiaar-rahb-byah-tohanger
la tristezzatree-stet-tsahsadness
la felicitĂ feh-lee-chee-tahhappiness
la delusionedeh-loo-zyoh-nehdisappointment
l’ansiaahn-syahanxiety
la frustrazionefroos-trah-tzyoh-nehfrustration
l’orgoglioor-gohl-yohpride
la gelosiajeh-loh-zee-ahjealousy
la solitudinesoh-lee-too-dee-nehloneliness
la sorpresasor-preh-zahsurprise
la gratitudinegrah-tee-too-dee-nehgratitude

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Expressing complex feelings and moods

Nuanced emotional terms 

Italian is rich and poetic in its bones, so it tends to express emotions in ways that can be more nuanced than the English alternative. Ever have that poetic feeling of pensive sadness, that seems to have no obvious cause? That’s (la) malinconia. Or that warm, heart-melting sensation when you see a baby smile? That’s (la) tenerezza. Here’s a selection of subtle and complex emotional terms to enhance your expressive range:

ItalianPronunciationEnglish
la serenitĂ seh-reh-nee-tahserenity
la soddisfazionesod-dees-faht-tzyoh-nehsatisfaction
il sollievosohl-lyeh-vohrelief
la tenerezzateh-neh-ret-tsahtenderness
la commozionekohm-moh-tzyoh-nehdeep emotion (that usually provokes tears, either sad or happy)
il rimpiantoreem-pyahn-tohregret
il rimorsoree-mohr-sohremorse
l’inquietudineeen-kwee-eh-too-dee-nehrestlessness
lo sconfortoskon-for-tohdiscouragement
la vergognaver-goh-nyahshame
la malinconiamah-leen-koh-nee-ahmelancholy
la nostalgianoh-stal-jee-ahnostalgia
il sospettosoh-spet-tohsuspicion
l’empatiaem-pah-tee-ahempathy
la timidezzatee-mee-det-tsahshyness
l’euforiaeh-oo-foh-ree-aheuphoria
l’appagamentoahp-pah-gah-men-tohfulfillment
l’esaltazioneeh-zal-tah-tzyoh-nehexaltation
l’afflizioneahf-fleet-zyoh-nehaffliction
il disappuntodee-zahp-poon-tohdisappointment
lo stuporestoo-poh-rehamazement
lo sdegnosdeg-nyohoutrage
il disagiodee-zah-jyohunease
la tranquillitĂ tran-kweel-lee-tahtranquility
l’amarezzaah-mah-ret-tsahbitterness
l’estasies-tah-zeeecstasy
l’abbandonoab-ban-doh-noabandonment
la rassegnazioneras-seg-nya-tzyoh-nehresignation

Cultural context of emotions

Talking about emotions in Italian isn’t just about vocabulary. It’s about expression, too! Remember, Italians don’t just feel emotions — they live them. Compared to their northern European neighbors, Italians are generally more open and expressive with their feelings. On the other hand, silence, which in some cultures signals discomfort, can signify deep contemplation (or just the calm before an emotional storm).

Understanding these cultural nuances will help you not only speak Italian, but foster a deeper connection with the Italian way of experiencing the world.

Practical application in conversations

Common phrases to describe feelings 

While body language is indeed helpful to express emotions, words do the heavy lifting:

  • Mi sento felice. (I feel happy.)
  • Sono arrabbiato/a. (I am angry.)
  • Ho paura. (I am afraid.)
  • Mi sento triste. (I feel sad.)
  • Sono emozionato/a. (I am excited/moved.)
  • Provo molta gioia. (I feel a lot of joy.)
  • Mi sento giĂč. (I feel down.)
  • Sono deluso/a. (I am disappointed.)
  • Mi sento a disagio. (I feel uncomfortable.)
  • Ho nostalgia di casa. (I feel homesick.)

The role of verbs in emotional expression 

When expressing emotions in Italian, you’ll find that many phrases use the essere conjugation (to be), while others use the avere conjugation (to have). However, the most important verb when discussing feelings in Italian is surely the reflexive verb sentirsi (to feel), as in:

  • Mi sento felice (I feel happy).

Here are a few more essential verbs for talking about emotions:

  • provare (to experience) → Provo rabbia. (I experience anger.)
  • esprimere (to express) → Esprimo la mia gratitudine. (I express my gratitude.)
  • reprimere (to suppress) → Reprimo la mia rabbia. (I suppress my anger.)
  • commuoversi (to get emotional) → Mi commuovo facilmente. (I get emotional easily.)

Mastering these verbs will help you construct natural, expressive sentences — and maybe even argue like a true Italian.

How to practice and master emotional expression

The role of comedy in language learning 

If you really want to master emotional expression in Italian, there’s no better way than through comedy. Italian humor thrives on exaggeration, irony and over-the-top expressiveness, making it a goldmine for learning how emotions are communicated in everyday speech. 

Whether it’s a sarcastic quip, an exaggerated sigh or a dramatic "Ma ti sembra normale?!" (“Does this seem normal to you?!”), Italian comedy teaches you how to feel the language. It’s also a great way to witness these charming people using sarcasm and irony to add lightness to a frustrating situation.

Another great thing about Italian comedy? Regional dialects and slang. Emotions don’t sound the same in Milan as they do in Naples, and comedies often showcase these differences. If you want to hear expressive Italian in action, check out these classics:

Film and television:

  • Benvenuti al Sud – A hilarious culture clash between the north and south of Italy.
  • Perfetti Sconosciuti – A mix of drama and humor, perfect for picking up natural emotional expressions.
  • Fantozzi – A slapstick classic that exaggerates frustration and resignation in the most Italian way possible.
  • Night on Earth – A funny and heartwarming project by Jim Jarmusch, consisting of five taxi rides happening at the same time, in five different cities. Part Four takes place in Rome, and the taxi driver is none other than Roberto Benigni.

Comedians:

  • Roberto Benigni – Known for his witty, expressive storytelling.
  • Checco Zalone – A modern comic genius who plays with stereotypes and emotions.
  • Aldo, Giovanni e Giacomo – A legendary comedy trio famous for their exaggerated expressions and clever wordplay.

So, the next time you sit down to “study” Italian, grab some popcorn, put on an Italian comedy and prepare to laugh your way to fluency!

Structured and interactive classes

While laughing at Italian comedies is a fantastic way to absorb natural expressions, structured learning is key to mastering emotional fluency. That’s where Lingoda comes in.

Lingoda offers live, interactive classes with native-speaking teachers, ensuring you get real-time feedback on your pronunciation and sentence structure. Unlike self-study apps, these lessons are conversation-focused, meaning you’ll actively practice expressing emotions in Italian. Plus, with small class sizes and flexible scheduling, you can learn at your own pace while immersing yourself in real-world dialogues.

From discussing how you really feel to understanding subtle emotional nuances, Lingoda can go a long way in helping you gain confidence to express emotions like a true Italian!

What do Italians say when they're upset?

When Italians are upset, they might say “Che rabbia!” (“What anger!”), “Sono furioso/a!" (“I’m furious!”), or “Non ne posso piĂč!” (“I can't take it anymore!”). Expect dramatic hand gestures, too!

How do you say ‘emotion’ in Italian?

"Emotion" in Italian is emozione.

So, ‘come ti senti’? (How do you feel?)

Expressing emotions in Italian is about feeling the language and embracing its passion, humor and rhythm. Mastering basic and nuanced vocabulary is a great beginning, but getting familiar with how Italians express sarcasm, excitement, love and frustration will help you truly connect with people.

Of course, learning a language takes patience (and maybe a few dramatic sighs along the way). But every “Mi sento felice!” or “Che rabbia!” will bring you closer to fluency. Keep practicing and don’t be afraid to express yourself — Italian style!

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Imanol RodrĂ­guez Guridi

Imanol RodrĂ­guez Guridi

Imanol Rodríguez Guridi is a Uruguayan polyglot writer with a moderate obsession for world music research. As a former Literature student who realized he should’ve aimed for Ethnography instead, he has spent serious amounts of time thoroughly traveling through over 40 countries, engaging with locals to a maximum degree with the hopes of understanding their traditions, habits, languages, religions, virtues and vices directly from the source. Writing and traveling aside, he’s an Abhyanga massage therapist and loves mixing music.